The Tasks We Face in Grief Surround…
Facing the Fear
Feeling the Feeling
Experiencing the Power
of the Dramatic Revealing
of the Distance in Relating
with which our Souls are Debating
Elating and Enlightening
as well as Sad and Deflating
Infatuation with Flames
that Simultaneously Burn
Increasing Pain, Awareness
and the Impulse to Learn
and Create Understanding
Integration of Story
Sought to Recreate or Restore
Each person’s version of Glory
Forged through the Fire
more Deeply Alive
Free to Suffer more Deeply
and also the Thrive
To Free a new Version
with our Loss made Intact
Not Free from the Pain
but Less Tied to React
When we’ve tried to Contract
to Stifle or Extract
Feeling from Instinct
We are bound to Impact
Ourselves and our Loves
Overt or Covertly
“I just Sought to Avoid
but Found that only Hurt me”
Make Peace with the Pain
Surrender to the Flow
The Way to find Health
Bodies already Know
Trust in the Pain, the Anger
and Worry
Trusting the Current
When the Climate is Blurry
Urgency is Profound
though there’s No Way to Hurry
the Fog will Subside
take Good Care as you Journey
Honor the Love
and Tie that was Lost
To Experience Joy
Does not come without Cost
We Really Do Feel
We Really Do Love
Human Connection Our Mandate
Nothing Valued Above
The Joy we received
Far out-values the Pain
but the Cruelty of Loss
is that’s what we’re Left and Remain
A Malleable Remanent
to Process and Reveal
Proactive Engagement
to allow Us to Heal
The Tasks We Face in Grief Surround…
By: William Adams
Created for International SOS Day
November 2019